As the header says my high beams dont come on with either the "on" or the intermintint switches. Tho if the alarm goes off they do come on. yes I have checked the fitting of the connectors and the bulbs are good. Any ideas??

 

maybe some kinda short or bad contact in the stalk

 

Take the stalk out and check that the "fingers" are making good contact.. I had the same problem with my Pathfinder and thats what it was..

 

I ha dthe same problem with mine. With the high beams on, only one side would light up and i bought another stalk or you can call it a switch on ebay and it works like a charm ever since.