before i try this again i want to make sure what i'm doing, last time i blew my hazard and turn signal fuses. I'm supposed to connect pink wire from turn and connect to ground from sidemarker before the two grounds connect?am i right? Becuse when i went to installation school, not sur but i think positive wires sholdn't be connected to ground wires.(creates a dead short)correct me if i'm wrong.

right, connect pink + from turn signal to the ground wire going to the bulb (leave the ground going back into the harness alone)
it works fine that way