where can i find instructions on how to program my remote to my 96 max?

Im sure the dealership would help you out on that..

yea for 25 dollars.......

i know they are somewhere online....please

I'll give you a hand since some are unwilling. Check the FAQs, the sequence of events is there. I think the only problem some are having is when locking/unlocking the door when starting the programming and also when doing multiple remotes. When it says to lock/unlock the doors (except when the remote is specified), use the lock by the door handle, and not the power lock button by the window switches. I currently have 3 remotes programmed for mine, and the sequence does work with the added note about the lock button. Hope this helps. If not, you can email or PM me, and I'll check my FSM.

Dave

thanks i apreciate it. ill let you know if there are any problems. thanks again.