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Old 09-06-2004, 07:13 AM
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I need Advice about a girl

hey i kno this is a car forum but i need sum adivce and figured a bunch of older guys cud gimme sum advice..

well im almost 17 and been dating my girl for just about 3 years.. friday night she got drunk and got with another girl... she told me.. she asks me to forgive her and forget it cuz it was all the liqer and not her and that she wouldnt do it again... right away i felt **** this i wanna end it but then she started crying and all this bull**** sayin she loves me and what not.. idk what to do end it and walk away from 3 years or try and work it out.

btw im sorry to the forum admin if he sees this and says its not a car post just lookin for advice
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Old 09-06-2004, 07:17 AM
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girl on girl action=



Why are you mad? you should ask to join next time.



Again, girl on girl action....
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Old 09-06-2004, 07:17 AM
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wait... she went with another girl and you wanna end it? man....

of course this is not the right place but i would say: tell her that you also wanna do this girl and then do both at once and if she says no its over

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Old 09-06-2004, 07:21 AM
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If my girlfriend got with a girl, I wouldn't be mad... At least she didn't get with a guy. I would not dump her after 3 years of going out for a mistake like that. She's obviously sorry. Good luck with it.

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You guys should be shot!, this is my bro you talking about... he's been with his girl for 3 years and to find out she got waisted and hit up by a *****... common fellaz im talking about a real relationship not a **** fantasy!.
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Old 09-06-2004, 07:25 AM
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lol well as 2 everyone saying i should have a 3 sum the other girl has been asking for 1 and my girl sed na she dun like the idea of girl on girl... then she got drunk and ****ed around its like.. blah lol idk what to do
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Old 09-06-2004, 07:27 AM
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make a lil love get down tonight uhuh (POLINA) uhuh (POLINA). Thats the next move..
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Old 09-06-2004, 07:30 AM
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Forgetting the idea of the threesome If this is the first time that she screwed up, I think you should let it go. She was drunk and didn't fully realize. She feels bad about it. If she messes up again, then you have a problemm, but for now, forgive her and keep going with it. Don't let three years go over one mistake, especially girl on girl mistake.
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Old 09-06-2004, 07:32 AM
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here is a pic of the girls and me http://67.18.37.18/1092/148/upload/p4648501.jpg
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Old 09-06-2004, 07:34 AM
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what a pimp! ROLF ROFL did i mention POLINA!
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Old 09-06-2004, 07:34 AM
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Use this to your advantage man. One 17 year old to a soon to be one.
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Give her one more chance. If she had slept with a man, I'd dump her. Just make sure she doesn't get drunk and winds up doing this with some guy. If you both love each other, life is too short to dwell on this.
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Dump her on the spot, she had sex with someone else other than you. Screw that " I was drunk" BS, she knew she was having sex. If you think you da pimp, you'll find better ones.
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You guys should be shot!, this is my bro you talking about... he's been with his girl for 3 years and to find out she got waisted and hit up by a *****... common fellaz im talking about a real relationship not a **** fantasy!.
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Dump her on the spot, she had sex with someone else other than you. Screw that " I was drunk" BS, she knew she was having sex. If you think you da pimp, you'll find better ones.!.

Im gonna agree with your older bro man, if she can't control herself under the influence maybe she shouldn't be drinking. what happens if she gets wasted and doesnt know whats going on and a guy takes advantage of her ... 3 years is a long time man, I think you two should talk, I wish you the best of luck.
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you have got to be kidding me. how is this still alive. lock this thread please...for the betterment of maxima.org
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Old 09-06-2004, 08:24 AM
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aite this is what u do have a 3some with both of them then dump her and you good, na honestly keep her yo 3yrs over someting like that aint worht it
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Old 09-06-2004, 08:24 AM
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Originally Posted by xMastaMindx
hey i kno this is a car forum but i need sum adivce and figured a bunch of older guys cud gimme sum advice..

well im almost 17 and been dating my girl for just about 3 years.. friday night she got drunk and got with another girl... she told me.. she asks me to forgive her and forget it cuz it was all the liqer and not her and that she wouldnt do it again... right away i felt **** this i wanna end it but then she started crying and all this bull**** sayin she loves me and what not.. idk what to do end it and walk away from 3 years or try and work it out.

btw im sorry to the forum admin if he sees this and says its not a car post just lookin for advice

just be happy it was a girl and not a guy,that means she's not looking for another guy.
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Old 09-06-2004, 08:27 AM
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if she cheats on you once, she'll cheat on you again. Ask for a 3some for collateral.
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i would dump that btch
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Old 09-06-2004, 09:00 AM
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You young kids shouldnt be drinking anyway...
Does this make sense
3 years of time > 1 night of girl on girl greatness
You should sit her down and talk to her. And tell her that you have mixed feelings about the situation.
Besides she's young girls should be allowed some leway for girl on girl trial.
(not that you are this is just an example)
If you were bi, and wanted to try another dude. and she is bi and wanted to try another girl. Obviously your gonna go for it your the man, you wear the pants. Shouldnt she have the chance to try?

Be compasionate. Its how you get to the point where your considering marrage, but know your to young. =\

If you really love her you'll forgive her. If you dump her on the spot, then did you really care about her or were you playing her feelings.
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Old 09-06-2004, 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted by xMastaMindx
hey i kno this is a car forum but i need sum adivce and figured a bunch of older guys cud gimme sum advice..

well im almost 17 and been dating my girl for just about 3 years.. friday night she got drunk and got with another girl... she told me.. she asks me to forgive her and forget it cuz it was all the liqer and not her and that she wouldnt do it again... right away i felt **** this i wanna end it but then she started crying and all this bull**** sayin she loves me and what not.. idk what to do end it and walk away from 3 years or try and work it out.

btw im sorry to the forum admin if he sees this and says its not a car post just lookin for advice

First of all, seems to me all of you are too young to drink. You cant handle the alcohol because you can hardly handle yourselves sober. Not trying to bash but it is true.

Second, what do you know about love? You are what 16, 17. You have not lived yet so I cant understand how you can say you love her. Love is alot more than just getting jealous cause somebody else is knockin the bottom out of it.

My advice to you is to chalk it up to experience and move on. Maybe you should think about eating the cat a little more often or just keep on practicing cuz she went to another chick. Man that has got to suck. Hey but you have heard the sayin cant no man please a woman like another woman can!!!
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Old 09-06-2004, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted by xMastaMindx
here is a pic of the girls and me http://67.18.37.18/1092/148/upload/p4648501.jpg

No wonder she went with the other chick.
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WOW this is crazy, btw im suprised to see you guys actually have feelings, i thought you guys just drove maximas lol wow you guys suprise me maybe i should ask yal for help later on lol
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Im gonna agree with your older bro man, if she can't control herself under the influence maybe she shouldn't be drinking. what happens if she gets wasted and doesnt know whats going on and a guy takes advantage of her ... 3 years is a long time man, I think you two should talk, I wish you the best of luck.
hes my best friend, usually call him bro. Im 18 about to be 19 and Dont drink or do drugs. I make it clear to myself that im not in the rush to grow up. Enjoy life and dont be in a rush to do what the big boyz do.
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Read the FAQs. Your answer should be there.
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Read the FAQs. Your answer should be there.
ROLF,
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Old 09-06-2004, 09:34 AM
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well kno she didnt **** the other chick and my puss eating skills are great lol she actually just made out wit the other chick i kno u ppl say stay wit her and give her a shot but i mean i dun look the same at her the same anymore and smx isnt my older brother lol we jus tight friends lol
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What happens when she gets drunk again?

Two things can happen because of this:
1) Next time she gets loaded, she's gonna take it in the pooper.
2) She realizes she likes munching rug and dumps you for a chick.
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Old 09-06-2004, 09:39 AM
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Dump that ******. If alcohol made her get with some chick, who's know when she gets drunk next time she won't hook up with some guy/guys.
Good luck man.
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Old 09-06-2004, 09:56 AM
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its wrong either way if it was with a girl or a guy, if she was so drunk that she did that especially since she doesnt like being with girls then, when she get drunk again who knows what will happen cause she was so drunk she didnt know what she was doing (so she says).

Go with your heart of it, but if you guys usually drink alot then this could be a chronic problem, if you let her go thats more money for the max, but the max cant give you some.

Choose wisely.
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3 years is a long time but if she can so easily mess around with another girl and enjoy doing it at the time, whos to say that the next time she wont get it on with another guy. What then, she is going to say that she was so drunk that she swallowed his parts? I say dump her or get with a girl and use the same excuse....see how she feels about it.
Best of luck...
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How good can the "gettin some" be if it's been beat up by every swingin' d**k and chick w/a tounge in the neighborhood?
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Originally Posted by xMastaMindx
well kno she didnt **** the other chick and my puss eating skills are great lol she actually just made out wit the other chick i kno u ppl say stay wit her and give her a shot but i mean i dun look the same at her the same anymore and smx isnt my older brother lol we jus tight friends lol



They just made out... no need to be mad.
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