I am changing my fuel filter and it says to disconnect the fuel pump fuse to release the fuel pressure but i cant find it at all. Is there another way to do this or is there anyone who knows where I could find this elusive fuse?

It's right there with all the other fuses below your left knee when you sit in the driver's seat.

DW

once you get into the fuses, the fuel pump fuse is in the right column of fuses, in the middle. I think it's either a 7.5 amp or 15 amp fuse. there's a diagram on the inside of the fuse cover. you'll need some needle nose pliers or a fuse puller of some sort because it's not easy to pull out w/just your fingers.