I wanna buy a max....
#41
Originally posted by asu174
Maybe I am overreacting, but I have a BIG problem with people who refuse to recognize debt as their primary responsibility. If I met this guy in person, yes, I would call him an idiot to his face.
To jjs' point, he's probably right in the fact that we don't know the whole situation. He very well could be in the process of repairing his credit, but the statement he made about how the debt would be really hard to pay off is ringing in my head. That insinuates that he has very little intention of paying it off.
I have a client that owes me $44,000 right now and I am fuming mad about it. I guess it was just bad timing for this thread to pop up.
Maybe I am overreacting, but I have a BIG problem with people who refuse to recognize debt as their primary responsibility. If I met this guy in person, yes, I would call him an idiot to his face.
To jjs' point, he's probably right in the fact that we don't know the whole situation. He very well could be in the process of repairing his credit, but the statement he made about how the debt would be really hard to pay off is ringing in my head. That insinuates that he has very little intention of paying it off.
I have a client that owes me $44,000 right now and I am fuming mad about it. I guess it was just bad timing for this thread to pop up.
You mentioned that a client owes you $44,000, so would it be wise for me to tell you "Listen, don't buy any mods...you're in the hole for $40K, and you'd be an idiot spending money unwisely until you're able to settle this bill"? That would be retarded of me because I don't know anything about your life to pass that judgement, and moreso, you never asked for such opinion. Likewise, the original poster never asked for your opinion on his debt or loss of business. He simply wanted to know whether he can but the car with bad credit. PERIOD!
#42
Do you have a point to make here that is even remotely related to this thread?[/B]
#43
Originally posted by asu174
Maybe I am overreacting, but I have a BIG problem with people who refuse to recognize debt as their primary responsibility.
I have a client that owes me $44,000 right now and I am fuming mad about it. I guess it was just bad timing for this thread to pop up.
Maybe I am overreacting, but I have a BIG problem with people who refuse to recognize debt as their primary responsibility.
I have a client that owes me $44,000 right now and I am fuming mad about it. I guess it was just bad timing for this thread to pop up.
#44
Originally posted by 255HP_03_SE
Whatever.
I don't remember offering help for his credit problem... I do remember pointing out your behavior. Also, I don't remember saying you were 'mean and hurtful', but I said "rude, inconsiderate, and disrespectful".
Trying to turn the tables. A pathetical, typical psychological defense.
From Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary (1913) [web1913]
Somewhere \Some"where`\, adv.
In some place unknown or not specified
That unspecified place would be your brain... or the place of knowledge that you are tapping out presently while trying to find new ways to insult.
And when I said 'take you apart', I didn't mean 'pick you apart' (although, I'm sure that it would be fun to compare notes and pick you apart in your credentials, your logic, etc.)... I meant take you apart. Maybe you need a translator?
NO, they were just my opinion.
Whatever.
I don't remember offering help for his credit problem... I do remember pointing out your behavior. Also, I don't remember saying you were 'mean and hurtful', but I said "rude, inconsiderate, and disrespectful".
Trying to turn the tables. A pathetical, typical psychological defense.
From Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary (1913) [web1913]
Somewhere \Some"where`\, adv.
In some place unknown or not specified
That unspecified place would be your brain... or the place of knowledge that you are tapping out presently while trying to find new ways to insult.
And when I said 'take you apart', I didn't mean 'pick you apart' (although, I'm sure that it would be fun to compare notes and pick you apart in your credentials, your logic, etc.)... I meant take you apart. Maybe you need a translator?
NO, they were just my opinion.
#45
Originally posted by vito1281
You mentioned that a client owes you $44,000, so would it be wise for me to tell you "Listen, don't buy any mods...you're in the hole for $40K, and you'd be an idiot spending money unwisely until you're able to settle this bill"? That would be retarded of me because I don't know anything about your life to pass that judgement, and moreso, you never asked for such opinion
You mentioned that a client owes you $44,000, so would it be wise for me to tell you "Listen, don't buy any mods...you're in the hole for $40K, and you'd be an idiot spending money unwisely until you're able to settle this bill"? That would be retarded of me because I don't know anything about your life to pass that judgement, and moreso, you never asked for such opinion
In the meantime, he also chooses to judge others. How quaint. But we'll go ahead and avoid judging him and calling him an idiot as well (oh, my, how the tables have turned).
R
#46
Originally posted by 255HP_03_SE
Any neither did the member who originated this thread. Actually, based on the fact that a client DOES owe him $44,000, we could so easily tell him the opinion that he is a sucker, a moron who let's people scam him out of his money... and yet you have a good point... he is owed all this money, chooses to cry about it, and still chooses to go out and spend more on mods.
In the meantime, he also chooses to judge others. How quaint. But we'll go ahead and avoid judging him and calling him an idiot as well (oh, my, how the tables have turned).
R
Any neither did the member who originated this thread. Actually, based on the fact that a client DOES owe him $44,000, we could so easily tell him the opinion that he is a sucker, a moron who let's people scam him out of his money... and yet you have a good point... he is owed all this money, chooses to cry about it, and still chooses to go out and spend more on mods.
In the meantime, he also chooses to judge others. How quaint. But we'll go ahead and avoid judging him and calling him an idiot as well (oh, my, how the tables have turned).
R
Vito- The post you responded to essentially responds to you again. I said that we don't know the whole situation and that I may have overreacted. We are beating a dead horse here.
#47
Originally posted by asu174
I said the forum is not a PROFESSIONAL ENVIRONMENT SO THEREFORE YOU CANNOT CALL ME UNPROFFESSIONAL. LEARN HOW TO READ.
Yes.
Please show me where you were being realistic in helping this guy with his credit problem. All you have offered is the same canned response that I was being mean and hurtful. WAHHHHHH! Cry me a river.
Who is insulting who now?
"somewhere that you were not as educated or talented......"
"take you apart as well."
If you must know, neither of these phrases is grammatically correct.
1. "Somewhere" refers to a physical, tangible place, not an idea or group of ideas.
2. You can't "take me apart". I am not a Lego set. There is, however, a popular expression known as, "pick you apart." Is that what you were trying to say?
Calling me immature, telling me I have an IQ the size of my waist and telling me that I have no common sense certainly aren't insults, now are they?
Do you have a point to make here that is even remotely related to this thread? Obviously not.
I said the forum is not a PROFESSIONAL ENVIRONMENT SO THEREFORE YOU CANNOT CALL ME UNPROFFESSIONAL. LEARN HOW TO READ.
Yes.
Please show me where you were being realistic in helping this guy with his credit problem. All you have offered is the same canned response that I was being mean and hurtful. WAHHHHHH! Cry me a river.
Who is insulting who now?
"somewhere that you were not as educated or talented......"
"take you apart as well."
If you must know, neither of these phrases is grammatically correct.
1. "Somewhere" refers to a physical, tangible place, not an idea or group of ideas.
2. You can't "take me apart". I am not a Lego set. There is, however, a popular expression known as, "pick you apart." Is that what you were trying to say?
Calling me immature, telling me I have an IQ the size of my waist and telling me that I have no common sense certainly aren't insults, now are they?
Do you have a point to make here that is even remotely related to this thread? Obviously not.
#49
Originally posted by asu174
Vito- The post you responded to essentially responds to you again. I said that we don't know the whole situation and that I may have overreacted. We are beating a dead horse here.
Vito- The post you responded to essentially responds to you again. I said that we don't know the whole situation and that I may have overreacted. We are beating a dead horse here.
#50
Originally posted by asu174
If only you knew how stupid you sound right now. But I get your point, we don't know the whole situation, and you CERTAINLY do not know mine. Tables turned....good one, newbie. And now, you are ignored.....
Vito- The post you responded to essentially responds to you again. I said that we don't know the whole situation and that I may have overreacted. We are beating a dead horse here.
If only you knew how stupid you sound right now. But I get your point, we don't know the whole situation, and you CERTAINLY do not know mine. Tables turned....good one, newbie. And now, you are ignored.....
Vito- The post you responded to essentially responds to you again. I said that we don't know the whole situation and that I may have overreacted. We are beating a dead horse here.
#51
Originally posted by vito1281
We WERE beating a dead horse until your reply quoted above, admitting that you "may have" overreacted. I'm glad you finally see it. I'm just tired of opening up threads with subjects of interest, and seeing the thread jacked, and flames going on.
We WERE beating a dead horse until your reply quoted above, admitting that you "may have" overreacted. I'm glad you finally see it. I'm just tired of opening up threads with subjects of interest, and seeing the thread jacked, and flames going on.
#52
Different situation. One person is telling him not to enter into a situation BEFORE purchasing. ASU's client ALREADY ownes him the money(for goods/services). How can you judge him? $ transactions are rarely pay upfront. More like terms. 30/60/90 day, L/C etc... So maybe he's upset because of the terms and not the fact he's getting paid. So your argument is not as valid as ASU's. There's not nearly as much information regarding your example as there is for the guy wanting to buy a maxima w/ bad credit and big debt.
You know, all your posts in this thread DON'T include a direct answer to the original poster. So at least someone is trying to give an answer vs just suggestions on how to be PC.
You know, all your posts in this thread DON'T include a direct answer to the original poster. So at least someone is trying to give an answer vs just suggestions on how to be PC.
Originally posted by 255HP_03_SE
Any neither did the member who originated this thread. Actually, based on the fact that a client DOES owe him $44,000, we could so easily tell him the opinion that he is a sucker, a moron who let's people scam him out of his money... and yet you have a good point... he is owed all this money, chooses to cry about it, and still chooses to go out and spend more on mods.
In the meantime, he also chooses to judge others. How quaint. But we'll go ahead and avoid judging him and calling him an idiot as well (oh, my, how the tables have turned).
R
Any neither did the member who originated this thread. Actually, based on the fact that a client DOES owe him $44,000, we could so easily tell him the opinion that he is a sucker, a moron who let's people scam him out of his money... and yet you have a good point... he is owed all this money, chooses to cry about it, and still chooses to go out and spend more on mods.
In the meantime, he also chooses to judge others. How quaint. But we'll go ahead and avoid judging him and calling him an idiot as well (oh, my, how the tables have turned).
R
#53
Originally posted by 255HP_03_SE
Man oh man are you something else. I like the 'newbie' insult even more... shows you are a pathetic, desperate little man. And I do mean that. We'll have to meet sometime... I'm sure our credentials will be matched up then. and then, you will be for sure.
Man oh man are you something else. I like the 'newbie' insult even more... shows you are a pathetic, desperate little man. And I do mean that. We'll have to meet sometime... I'm sure our credentials will be matched up then. and then, you will be for sure.
#55
Originally posted by asu174
Dude, I said that in the other post too. It was actually the first thing I said.
Dude, I said that in the other post too. It was actually the first thing I said.
#58
Originally posted by Padsy 02 6sp
You may call me Padsy, or Mr. Padsy.....you do not have the permission to call me slick. I find it UNPROFESSIONAL.
You may call me Padsy, or Mr. Padsy.....you do not have the permission to call me slick. I find it UNPROFESSIONAL.
-R
p.s. Do we want to return to a more 'professional' environment?
#61
Originally posted by Padsy 02 6sp
asu is not that little
asu is not that little
I think his last post sums it up. We have a 33 year old man resorting to the inevitable "let's meet in person and sort it out" internet argument. I always thought that was a high school thing. Guess not. I don't know whether to hug him now and tell him it's going to be okay or just write him off as a complete dolt.
#62
Originally posted by 255HP_03_SE
asu set the standard (as low as it now is), and stated that this forum is Unprofessional. So, along those lines, slick, I don't need permission, now, do I?
-R
p.s. Do we want to return to a more 'professional' environment?
asu set the standard (as low as it now is), and stated that this forum is Unprofessional. So, along those lines, slick, I don't need permission, now, do I?
-R
p.s. Do we want to return to a more 'professional' environment?
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