help please from the heart.
03-18-2005, 09:44 AM
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help please from the heart.
Sorry mods I know this is off topic but I havent donated yet and I cant post there. Yesterday at about 1:30PM I was called by my girlfriends dad. Just to kinda back track my girls name is Jessyca she is 19 and she has arare form of lymphoma cancer. about one percent of the worlds population ever has this cancer diagnosed. She has been batteling it for almost 2 years.
After talking to her family yesterday I was told that her cancer had came back out of remission. normally chemo would stop the growth and we could deal with it. It would normally only come to her lymphnodes.
The cancer came back in a different way. It has totally infected her lungs and bone marrow. She just had a Bone marrow transplant about 3 months ago and it was susposed to be a cure. I just ask please say a paryer and send your thought to the lord and her. There is only a little time for her. I went to see her yesterday and I was horrified to see all the tubees and what not. I LOST IT! Please send your thoughts and wishes.
Thank you all
-Stan
After talking to her family yesterday I was told that her cancer had came back out of remission. normally chemo would stop the growth and we could deal with it. It would normally only come to her lymphnodes.
The cancer came back in a different way. It has totally infected her lungs and bone marrow. She just had a Bone marrow transplant about 3 months ago and it was susposed to be a cure. I just ask please say a paryer and send your thought to the lord and her. There is only a little time for her. I went to see her yesterday and I was horrified to see all the tubees and what not. I LOST IT! Please send your thoughts and wishes.
Thank you all
-Stan
03-18-2005, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted by 03tgtmaxima
just to let yall know she can hear your prayers now i just talked to her mom and she passed last night. i thank you all even those who read this and didnt post. i thank you all from the depths of my heart
03-18-2005, 05:07 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about Jessyca's passing... it's always sad when one so young leaves us to go on to whatever it is that comes next...
A blessing here is that she had you and her family there for her, and she is now free from suffering. Take care of yourself, man.
A blessing here is that she had you and her family there for her, and she is now free from suffering. Take care of yourself, man.
03-18-2005, 07:50 PM
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stan,
i've seen many deaths in my profession but when they're just a baby, that's just hard to take it. be assured that jessyca is in a better place now- no more suffering and resting in peace. both you and jessyca are in my prayors, as well as both of your family.
i've seen many deaths in my profession but when they're just a baby, that's just hard to take it. be assured that jessyca is in a better place now- no more suffering and resting in peace. both you and jessyca are in my prayors, as well as both of your family.
03-19-2005, 01:57 AM
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damn bro... thats soo sad to hear. i dont know what i would do if i was in your shoes. if there's anything that gets to me more, it's that feeling of helplessness... i know what it's like. my prayers + blessings goes out to both you & jessyca. think positive & hope for the best!
Things will get better, one day at a time.
03-19-2005, 09:05 AM
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I just wanted to say thanks again you are all really helping me get through this. it is so tough I never thought I would have to see this at the age of 20. it really makes you not take life for granted any more. the hardest days are to come. Wake on monday and funeral on tuesday. maybe after that i can start to carry on. again this all means so much to me and her family.
03-19-2005, 09:34 AM
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very sorry to hear this, i lost my 18 month old cousin to AML leukemia about six months ago... just stay next to her and try to keep her smiling...
i have lost several family members to cancer, it is much harder to see someone young have to go through this.
remeber to LiveStrong
i have lost several family members to cancer, it is much harder to see someone young have to go through this.
remeber to LiveStrong
03-19-2005, 10:35 AM
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i work in a hospital, i see this stuff, and when i see ppl standing outside of the room crying, and a few rooms down someone is laughing with their closest, i know it hurts that person. seems like noone understands your pain.
from the bottom of my heart i feel your pain and you are in my prayers.
from the bottom of my heart i feel your pain and you are in my prayers.
03-19-2005, 01:09 PM
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I am very sorry to hear about your loss. This is a very difficult situation for anyone to go through and it good to see all the support all the members of the org are giving. My prayers are with you and Jessyca's family. Take care bro!
03-19-2005, 02:30 PM
#32
Originally Posted by 03tgtmaxima
just to let yall know she can hear your prayers now i just talked to her mom and she passed last night. i thank you all even those who read this and didnt post. i thank you all from the depths of my heart
God bless.
Ozz
03-19-2005, 02:33 PM
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So so sorry to hear about your loss brother, I know how hard it can be losing someone you love, especially at such a young age. Take comfort in knowing that she is not going to ever suffer or experience pain ever again, and that someday the two of you will be re-united in a much better place. Keep your head up, and you know where we all are if you need ANYTHING.
Derek
Derek
03-19-2005, 05:06 PM
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So deeply sorry to hear about your girl. My prayers are with her and everyone that she is part of in some way shape or form.
Just remember to try and stay strong even though its hard to do.
May the Lord be with you!!!
Just remember to try and stay strong even though its hard to do.
May the Lord be with you!!!
