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Old Mar 20, 2005 | 02:59 AM
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hey buddy, i know exactly what you are going through.though not my girlfriend i have recently lost 2 loved ones to cancer. it would be great to keep them here just one more day but knowing they are up above in a better, safer place, helps me get by each day. i totally feel for you and just remember, that even though you cant see her she is there, watching over you each and everyday. You and her family will be in my prayers.
Old Mar 20, 2005 | 10:57 AM
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well the hardest part is to come today i am staying with the family tomorrow is a viewing and tuesda is the fuuneral. if i can keep it together till then i will be good. but it is so ****ing hard. i wouldnt wish this upon any one
Old Mar 20, 2005 | 11:43 AM
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I'm pretty shocked man, My prayers are with you and her family and all of her freinds. I really dont know what to say, but may she look over you forever!

!God Bless!
Old Mar 20, 2005 | 09:06 PM
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well just wanted to say prays are said i hope everything gets better good luck.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 07:09 AM
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My heart is very heavy
My eyes full of tears
I tell you all now
I've cherished those special years

But to be robbed of something so beautiful
Just heightens all my fears
I pray to you oh LORD
That you help me past my tears

I beg you help me find the faith
To realize she is now with you
And not in that terrible place
That took my love so true

I know LORD her spirit will live on
For you must need her more than we
And know that she will help you
Your servant she will be

But I ask a favor of you LORD
To give me the conviction to move on
And to remember this beautiful girl
As my love for her will ALWAYS dawn


I wish I knew something else to say, but my condolences and heart felt prayers are with you and your families. Take this oppurtunity to give back in rememberence of Jessyca. Good luck in the coming days and God bless.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 08:13 AM
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WoW....I'm just stunned from reading this post, it's really scary that it's not like I'm familier with that type of cancer but the way u stated only 1% of the population gets it. I'm really sorry to hear. My prayer goes to Jessyca/family.....stay strong, like other pple said just think of it as she's in better place resting in peace........
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 08:37 AM
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Hang in there man. We all feel for you, and are here for support.

Its so sad to hear about these things.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 08:38 AM
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im very sorry to hear that, i wish you all the best.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 08:53 AM
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sorry about everything bro.. wanna wish u both luck.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 09:33 AM
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Like everyone else, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the girl's family and friends. It's a terrible thing when somebody so young is taken from this world. My cousin needed a heart transplant two Septembers ago and could not get one in time. She was also 20. Seeing how much her passing affected her family and friends, I know how you are feeling right now, and it's got to be the worst feeling in the world. Though this seems impossible, there will be light at the end of the tunnel. Best wishes to everybody affected by the passing.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 09:40 AM
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I am sorry to hear that. My prayers goes out you and her family.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 09:44 AM
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Both you and she will be in my prayers. I'm sorry
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 09:58 AM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you dude. Life is so precious and so very fragile. My Mom & Dad always said if you have your health you have everything... So true...

Hang tough, you have many friends here to lean on...

My appreciation (and the entire Maxima family I'm sure) goes out to moderators for supporting this thread. Thank You....
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 09:59 AM
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I am very sorry to hear this. I wish you and both of your families all the best.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 10:13 AM
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Revelation 21:4...and He (God) Will Wipe Out Every Tear From Their Eyes And Death Will Be No More, Neither Will Mourning Nor Outcry Nor Pain Be Anymore. The Former Things Have Passed Away.

JOHN 11:25... I AM THE RESURRECTION AND THE LIFE, HE THAT EXERCISES FAITH IN ME, EVEN THOUGH HE DIES, WILL COME TO LIFE.

Thought These Might Be Of Encouragement. By The Way I Study The Bible So If You Have Any Questions About Something You Read Or Dont Understand I Will Be Happy To Help You. My sincerest condolances.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 10:48 AM
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i'm really sorry for you loss my friend. life has a way of really being unbearable in this kind of situation. I lost my little niece at the ripe age of 4 to a sudden illness just a month after my wedding. There is nothign more in the world that i would want but to have her back. i dont think i'll ever get over it, but i will alway remeber the good times i had with her, i hope you and your familes can remember the good times and let it get you through the pain.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 11:24 AM
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once again very sorry to hear about this...

this is my 18 month old couisins Eulogy , I always felt my Unlce summed things up perfectly in it.

if you want this is the Site Homepage

just know you and her family are never alone...
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 12:12 PM
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My condolances. Hang in there.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 12:33 PM
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First of all, my prayer for jessyca and her family and you. I'm sorry this had to happen. I really don't know what else to say to you except may god be with you and her family every step of the way to go thru this.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 01:22 PM
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My deepest condolences and sympathies for you and her family. Stay BLESSED!
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 02:58 PM
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Sorry to hear. Just remember her suffering is over and she is in a better place now. My prayers are with you, Jessyca's family, and your family for your loss. Stay strong!!
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 03:34 PM
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sorry to hear of your and her family's loss..stay strong in God...and you'll def. find comfort...
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 03:52 PM
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My prayers go out to you and Jessyca's family. She can now rest in peace.
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 06:26 PM
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My prayers are with you and the family. Trust in the Lord with all thy heart and lean not to thy own understanding. And in all thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct they paths. Proverbs 3:5-6
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 06:56 PM
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Please accept my humble prayers.

AA
Old Mar 21, 2005 | 07:46 PM
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My deepest condolences, I lost my grandmother a little over a year ago and that was the first time I had first hand witnessed someone passing away as almost every member of my family nearly all 30. It was very difficult to watch the doctors pull out her breathing tube many of my family members collapsed, 2 days later (approx. 2 days later) she passed away a lot of us have changed in my family. Don't take life for granted and live every moment as if it were your last. Don't say anything to hurt someone or to manipulate someone because they may not be there the next second. Life is too short. I can't imagine the pain you are going thru may Allah (God) be with you.
Old Mar 22, 2005 | 11:39 AM
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thanks again all it really warms my heart.

First half the famly didnt believe that there was an intenet club deticated to our maxima's.

second when i showed some of the family they were deeply touched on how so many of you from so far have written the thisng you have written.

third from me....... this org has been the first club that I have been included in. it mean alot to me to see all of your support. i wish there was a way to repay you all in some small way. if any onw id ever around san fran look me up and you will get a free lunch.

thanks again

-Stan
Old Mar 22, 2005 | 12:11 PM
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Stan,

Thanks for showing the rest of us to be prayerful as no one knows when their day will come!

Stay Strong!!!

Ola
Old Mar 23, 2005 | 10:39 AM
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I just had a cancer scare with my mother. She had a cyst ((spelling)) on her thyroid. She just had a biopsy done and it wasnt cancer.

I only had a scare! and it drove me nuts dude. I dont pray much, but ill save one for ur girl man. Take care, and take it easy! Things can only get better my friend

much luv from the 4th gen section hehe
Old Mar 23, 2005 | 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted by 03tgtmaxima
i wish there was a way to repay you all in some small way. if any onw id ever around san fran look me up and you will get a free lunch.

thanks again

-Stan

No need to "repay" us. Im sure none of us want anything for showing concearn. You can, however, "repay" us by posting and helping. Dont leave or go into hiding , we want you here!!!!

I have been helped in the past with my belief that everything happens for a reason. I know its sucky, and most of the times, even when I tell myself that theres a reason for everything, it just makes me more upset. I told myself that over and over again after my uncle passed away last September, but it was still hard, but I had no choice but to go on. I know he can see me, I can just feel it (dont ask, dont have an explanation anyone would accept). Just always remember. No one can ever take your memories away, and as long as you remember her how she was, she will always be with you.
Old Mar 23, 2005 | 10:59 AM
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Truly sorry to hear about that, bro...

My prayers are with her, you and your families.
Old Mar 23, 2005 | 01:30 PM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you, her and her family.....always know that the org has the best group of people and everyone is here for you.
Sean
Old Mar 23, 2005 | 01:57 PM
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If you believe in God, then you must also believe that in Him you will see her again!

1 Thes 4:14 - For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him!

2 Thes 4:16 - ... The dead in Christ shall rise first!

My sincere condolences to you and her family!
Old Mar 23, 2005 | 02:04 PM
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Originally Posted by soonerfan
i am so sorry dude. im trying to hold back the tears
My thoughts exactly. I will pray.
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