ok i looked around there org and there is some talk about vlsd but not where to find one. i know other nissans have them like I30's, J30's, q45's, and 300zx, but which on fits our 3rd gens? (at and mt if there is any difference between there)

 

Your only luck is probably going to be the one in the 92-94se tranny. Both auto and manual have it, both fit the VE, but only the manual will fit the VG. Custom things are around too, but are really expensive. Read the gear ratios thread, it talks about it some.