How can I shut off or disconnect the factory alarm? I cant find the box.

 

There is a fuse either in the fuse box by the steering wheel or one of the fuse panels under the hood, the fuse slot should say security.

 

I already tried that a while ago. Its not working. The alarm still remains activated even with the security fuse removed and the relay removed.
Perhaps I should ask this a different way. I'm installing an alarm. How do I deactivate the factory alarm permanently? I have to disarm 2 alarms when I get in the car. Maybe removing the fuses didnt work for me because the alarm was already triggered when I removed them. I'll try removing them tommorrow with the alarm disarmed.