Hamy

OK before everyone says to search...I have and I'm still confused as to what offset I'm going to need. It seems no one is willing to give me a straight answer as to what will work and what wont. Heres the deal I'm getting wheels thats are 19x8.5 and they come in +35, + 40, and +45 offset. My question is which would be better 35 or 40? I'm lowering the car around 2.5/1.8. I dont want the wheels to look to far in so to speak but at the same time I dont want the tires to stick out of the fenders or worse yet rub. As far as wheel spacers go could I just get them for the rear and get the 40mm offset? Please help guys I'm sure this has been brought up a bunch in the past but your really helping a fellow Maxima owner if you could give me a straight answer and not have me waste my money. Thanks in advance!

Dave