First question is will a 2000+ remote work on my 95 max?? and if so, or if not, how do i program the new remote myself?? if i need to buy an older one, how do i set it to work for my car?? if there is a link online, that would be great too. thanks SO much... my old remote has just lost its mojo

Hall

 

Here is a link to program an older remote. Not sure if it works for the newer ones but you can try:
http://web2.airmail.net/scutchen/max_faq/
Just click on the "Maintenance" subheading and click on "Programming keyless remote".

 

thanks

 

No problem.